When I first started doing
genealogy 15-20 years ago, I never dreamed or wanted to join the DAR or
Mayflower Society. I just didn’t get the concept of what was the big deal about
having ancestors that came over on the Mayflower or fought for America’s
freedom from the British in the Revolutionary War.
I guess that and the fact that
my mom couldn’t understand why I wanted to dig into the lives of her family,
especially since they had spent lots of time and effort hiding the family
secrets. Out of respect to my mom, the most wonderful person in my universe I
did very little digging into her family. My Mom died 4 years ago this last February.
At first when I started researching the biological side of my mother’s father I
was guilt stricken every time I found something. Then I opened an e-mail from
Marcia & David Treadway stating that I was either a 1st or 2nd cousin to
him, from the FTDNA testing. As we started sharing family history back and
forth the guilt started getting less and less.
David really wanted to become
a SAR (Sons of the American Revolution) member and kept reminding me that
neither one of us was getting any younger. That is when I decided to look into
becoming a DAR member and what the organization was really about. So I
contacted Ginger Carter, and found out that she is the Registrar for the
Worcester Chapter of DAR. I knew Ginger through our affiliation in MSOG
(Massachusetts Society of Genealogists, Inc.) the Worcester Chapter. Ginger is
a wonderful advocate for the DAR.
I found that it appeared that
I had gotten the wrong impression of what it really meant to become a DAR
member. It is an organization that forms lifelong bonds with other members that
network together to honor their revolutionary ancestors, and promote the
preservation of American history, education and patriotism in our community.
Genevieve R Vaundell DeHaan receiving my DAR pin from Ginger Carter, Registrar, Linda Munroe, Regent looking on | Photo by Jennifer Willson, Curator |
These are all the reasons why
I had become a genealogist and family historian in the first place. I’m PROUD
to be an AMERICAN and be able to honor my ancestors who were so instrumental in
ensuring that we would have all the freedoms we enjoy today.
That is why I am proud to say
I’m a DAR member. I also believe that my mom would be alright with it.
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